Paul -- Shooting the Sheriff
I know you and Brad are doing the best you can with this problem, but I think you're absolutely wrong in solely chastizing Bob for using a specific word (spammer). You talk as if he was attacking an innocent bystander here, while you completely ignore the overall effect of CJ's words, tone, manner, and general attitude with which he managed to insult just about everybody on the board in one way or another (worse than a mere "mild" label). This brings to mind those PC situations in which form outweighs substance.
Consider those remarks:
sheesh...c'mon people, I have prepared...and am ready to send it soon
Seems an unjustified sense of entitlement and/or obligation to me. After all, we're not employees he's paying for a "rush job."
gee thanks dan...and by the way...it's "run" not ran" wise guy
A bit sarastic, isn't it? And ingratitude for looking up those code sections? Too, "wise guy" is much stronger than "spammer."
...one could infer...impatience...none was intended.
I once had a client whose ex-wife was always saying "I love you" while kicking him down the stairs.
Black Bart...poker tips / shudder to think of...Oxtrainer
I have no idea what these mean, but I'm assuming they're derogatory.
...I have to wonder how those having difficulty (understanding my posts) ever get through tax code
We're all dumb?
...run across this, dan...
I assume there was some accompanying attachment or avatar, etc.
I don't know if CJ's a spammer or not (I kinda think not), but I don't blame Bob a bit for being upset about an unwarranted reprimand directed expressly and only to him instead of deservedly to the other guy. Bob's an extremely knowledgeable and valuable poster who certainly deserves our (and your) support in preference to that of brash arrogance...well, I guess I'd better stop there, but you get the idea, I suppose.
Originally posted by Paul Roberts
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Consider those remarks:
sheesh...c'mon people, I have prepared...and am ready to send it soon
Seems an unjustified sense of entitlement and/or obligation to me. After all, we're not employees he's paying for a "rush job."
gee thanks dan...and by the way...it's "run" not ran" wise guy
A bit sarastic, isn't it? And ingratitude for looking up those code sections? Too, "wise guy" is much stronger than "spammer."
...one could infer...impatience...none was intended.
I once had a client whose ex-wife was always saying "I love you" while kicking him down the stairs.
Black Bart...poker tips / shudder to think of...Oxtrainer
I have no idea what these mean, but I'm assuming they're derogatory.
...I have to wonder how those having difficulty (understanding my posts) ever get through tax code
We're all dumb?
...run across this, dan...
I assume there was some accompanying attachment or avatar, etc.
I don't know if CJ's a spammer or not (I kinda think not), but I don't blame Bob a bit for being upset about an unwarranted reprimand directed expressly and only to him instead of deservedly to the other guy. Bob's an extremely knowledgeable and valuable poster who certainly deserves our (and your) support in preference to that of brash arrogance...well, I guess I'd better stop there, but you get the idea, I suppose.
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