Off the subject again (of course). The last few years I've made it a practice to compliment the representatives of IRS and other government tax agencies anytime I phone them about various client cases.
My rationale is this: Having once read about an orgainization called "RASKALS" (an acronym for Random Acts of Senseless Kindness), I was impressed with the group's spirit of good will, promotion of civil behavior, and a general sense of "do unto others..." Their good idea was that one person does a favor for (or merely speaks kindly to) another, that person does the same, and the good works multiply exponentially. At one time there were several clubs/members across the country and, while I don't know if they still exist, their concept is still appealing.
I dealt with a courteous IRS rep this morning -- she was nice, she looked up my information, she answered my questions, and at conversation's end, I asked "What was your name again?" "Ms. So-and-so" she replied. I said "Well, Ms. So-and-so, you have been very helpful and you're a credit to the Service" (it's a good idea to mention their name a couple of times so they can personally get credit since IRS supposedly listens in occasionally). Obviously pleased (I could feel her smiling), she laughed, and I believe will be inclined to courteously assist the next tax preparer.
While there are agents running for SOB of the Year, some cold hearts can be melted (or at least warmed) -- if courtesy's out of the question, try "You're very efficient, Mrs. Ironfist" (stern-stuff types love that).
So anyway, maybe give it a shot. The cost is zero, we might be helping a comrade, and not much question the world could do with less sneers/more smiles.
My rationale is this: Having once read about an orgainization called "RASKALS" (an acronym for Random Acts of Senseless Kindness), I was impressed with the group's spirit of good will, promotion of civil behavior, and a general sense of "do unto others..." Their good idea was that one person does a favor for (or merely speaks kindly to) another, that person does the same, and the good works multiply exponentially. At one time there were several clubs/members across the country and, while I don't know if they still exist, their concept is still appealing.
I dealt with a courteous IRS rep this morning -- she was nice, she looked up my information, she answered my questions, and at conversation's end, I asked "What was your name again?" "Ms. So-and-so" she replied. I said "Well, Ms. So-and-so, you have been very helpful and you're a credit to the Service" (it's a good idea to mention their name a couple of times so they can personally get credit since IRS supposedly listens in occasionally). Obviously pleased (I could feel her smiling), she laughed, and I believe will be inclined to courteously assist the next tax preparer.
While there are agents running for SOB of the Year, some cold hearts can be melted (or at least warmed) -- if courtesy's out of the question, try "You're very efficient, Mrs. Ironfist" (stern-stuff types love that).
So anyway, maybe give it a shot. The cost is zero, we might be helping a comrade, and not much question the world could do with less sneers/more smiles.
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